My Brothers & Sisters…Please Read my words. Enjoy
The Law of Expectations.
Most people have an unrealistic expectation of love and relationships diminish before they even get a chance to prevail. Some females expect a relationship to be a fairy tale without any tribulations and hard times. Some dudes expect to find that perfect woman who doesn’t complain. And waits on them hand and feet for the rest of their lives without them ever having to lift a finger. It is not going to happen at least not 100 percent of the time. No one can give you their best all of time but it matters they give you their best the majority of the time.
EVERYONE has bad days.
As long as you are in a relationship even if you and the person are great for each other. There will be problems some people problems are bigger then others.Some are correctable and some are simply unforgivable. Even a real person has flaws the key is admitting them and the mistakes you made and learn for those mistakes and try to correct them as well traveling down the path to better yourself. And do whatever it takes to make up for your mistakes and be worthy in earning your forgiveness.
But what I realized about life and love is that they never go the way that you want to go all of the time. That is simply impossible. You will love, argue, disappoint each other (not necessarily in that order). It is easy to love someone when everything is smelling like roses. But the challenge is what will you do when the person you love is going through changes and is going through something that is altering their normal behavior? Will you be there to be supportive and devote all of your energy to uplifting them. Or will you ridicule and belittle them and just adding salt to the wound?
Love is beautiful even though it can have its repulsive moments that can bring out frustration and unusual and regrettable behavior. But just like a rose love comes with thorns but once you get pass the thorns. And you open yourself up to new possibilities you can reap some rewards in the universe of love that can change your life for the better forever. The decision is yours.
If you are investing your hopes and dreams on finding a perfect relationship, You might as well stay single because you will be sadly disappointed. You have greater chances of obtaining a great relationship by establishing concrete expectations and communicate them with an potential partner. You also as a person have to build towards achieving your expectations by putting your partner in the best position to succeed and not creating inconceivable standards. Love is a battle don’t make it any harder then it has to be.